That resonated with me and has really stuck with me. I quickly responded with "No, that sounds crazy *side eye*" But as I thought about it, I couldn't help but to ponder if she was right. I def. think that the Black community sees health, diet, nutrition, etc. in a much more relaxed way than Whites do, and I'm not sure if that's a positive thing or not. I have to admit that if I saw an overweight Black woman and an overweight White woman both walking down the street, my brain would go "huh?" at the White woman more than it would for the Black woman.
Of course, we as women and men are bombarded with messages daily that etch images of skinny minnies in our heads, but I also think if we were honest with ourselves, the Black community is much more relaxed on the push for healthy body images. Granted, the concept of "healthy body image" is debatable in our society, depending on who you talk to. However, I'm curious to know:
- Is it more acceptable to be overweight/obese as a Black person in today's society?
- What stereotypes or cultural entities in our community prevent us from promoting healthy concepts of body image?
- What needs to be done to push Blacks to have healthier practices in their lives?
This is also this week's Tweetin' Thursday question, so you're welcome to post your thoughts below, or wait for the FB/tweet later this evening and post then!
I definitely agree with you sis! The Black men and women are a bit too relaxed when it comes to their weight but it's even worse when it comes to Africans. I am African and it is even seen as a way of "good living" when you are over weight! It should not be so. Obesity should not be anymore accepted on Blacks than our White brothers or sisters. I do believe we are somewhat a bit too relaxed...It seems to me it ahs something to do with cultural background...
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yeah its interesting, b/c many black people call me skinny, but my white counterparts think Im average. In the black community, women who are thick and voluptuous are praised. I dont think its a bad thing as long as people are healthy, b/c u can be heavy and healthy but u can also be skinny and unhealthy
ReplyDeleteThere is definitely a difference in both communities. For Whites, big boobs are pretty much the only big thing the men want, while for a Black man the woman has to be a whole "thick" package. I am a plus sized woman who has gained weight throughout the years and my husband has NEVER complained about it... AT ALL. The problem is when clearly obese women start calling themselves "thick" as an excuse to not do any self-improvement. I am trying to eat healthier and feel better about working out (cause I hate it) but other Black women may eat away at the unhealthiest stuff & feel no way about it because "their man likes 'em thick"
ReplyDeleteYES! We are too lax with our body image and overall preventable health. Though in some cases it is likely that being overweight can't be helped. Well, let me rephrase that...can't be helped automatically. What I means is that some of us are predisposed to being overseight. Especially, those that suffer from HYPOthyriodism. While others can change and reduce their weight by changing overall diet. That can be difficult when only a child or person that is surrounded by people unwilling to change their ALL SOUL FOOD diet. I call it SLAVE FOOD, because once exposed it is hard to turn away from. With that, I can say that I have seen it happen. Though the the diseases from being obese generationally didn't go away the symptoms suffered did reduce along with weight.
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