Good lawd. How about I was so tired this weekend that I did not feel like doing anything to my hair. If you are wondering, the answer is yes, I have weekend hair and it's Wednesday. Let me give you more details (and don't laugh).
I had my very first natural hair meet-up, this past Saturday and it was a success (so gracious). I've always helped out with events and volunteered, but had no idea how it is being the one in charge. So I had last minute shopping to do (of course) and my plan was to do my hair on Friday, do my event on Saturday afternoon and go to a tweet up that evening in hopes of meeting someone new. HA!!! Well my event was done and that's about it. I did a wash and go with an ouchless head band on Saturday and on Sunday (and today) I rocked an under braid with two strands at the front.
I ended up not going anywhere near a tweet up, but I did meet someone. It's weird, because I didn't know until yesterday that we were exchanging numbers for the reason of talking on the phone. LOL... According to my best friend (BF), he stopped her first, asking about the event and she said it felt like he was trying to holla, so she shunned him off by giving a fake name and sending him my way. She called me as he was walking my way to give me a heads up. Now I have always been the person to give my number out and decide on it later. I mean, a guy has to be extremely rude for me to say no to a number request. So he gave me this story about how he wants his daughter to stop getting a relaxer and go natural, because it "so gorgeous". I said okay, gave my number and told him I'll keep in touch for the next event. I brushed it off as a potential attendee. I swear I must have been too tired to even think of the conversation and how he kept giving compliments and smiling like that cat off that movie (you know the one when the girl gets lost in the woods). Yeah... that's how big it was. I should have known better. I guess I have been out the dating game so long that I forgot how this stuff works. Shame on me.
Anyhoo... I got a text on Monday from a foreign number. I save everyone number in my phone, so to get a "good morning to you queen" scares me just a little (I've had text issues before). So I guess he didn't want to explain himself via text and just decided to give me a call while I was in a very good convo with my BF. This irritated me so much, that I realized that I will be single forever if I don't check my attitude (hold this thought). Needless to say, I got off the phone with him and didn't call back. As an adult, I may just need to explain this to him and be done with it. No need to ignore him completely. We'll see (hehehe).
Back to that thought... Well, I just save that question for next week. Ciao!!! Have a great weekend.
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