Pages

Thursday, March 8, 2012

Bad Boys.. Why do we love them so???

After being in the twilight zone (for real for real) I was forced to change my topic.  Someone on my FB page said they didn't understand MJB's new song Mr. Wrong.  I absolutely understand the song, but will not let that get in the way of my Mr. Right!!! 

I don't know a woman who can say that they have not had that one guy, who was a "bad boy" and loved him dearly.  Or at least that was what you thought?  LOL...  The whole, don't follow the rules, don't really have a "real" job, kids everywhere, just does something to us (I'm a currently laughing).

Yeah, yeah, yeah...  This might be okay when you are a teen and young adult, but once you pass the age of 25 you should be looking for more.  As we get older and find out who we are as a person and our self confidence increases, we should expect more out of a mate.  I know it takes time to get this "type" out of your system, but it's worth it.  You have to get use to "good" (think about it).

There are things that men should know how to handle when he is in a relationship with you and if he doesn't, it's up to you to teach him or let him go.  All too often women think those subtle signs of immaturity, in the beginning of a relationship, are cute and let them play out.  Only to find themselves crying a year later after being hurt the umpteenth time.  This is not acceptable ladies.  Men respect women who have respect for themselves.  And if you meet a guy who can not take your standards then he is not the guy for you.  Stop making it easy for men to run all over you like race track.  Love shouldn't hurt.

In life, everything that you go through should be a lesson learned, but I often see people failing the course and taking the class repeatedly.  You are worth so much more than a heartache and pain. 

Until next time... Ciao!

No comments:

Post a Comment